It's far easier and a lot more fun to seduce life than to try and conquer it
Today I am here to seduce you into a life of love; help you to become a little more poetic; help you step out of the ordinary so that extraordinary explodes in your life.
One of the most persistent metaphors for success is that of a conqueror. It sure sounds noble to charge out there and prevail in life. To overcome every obstacle and defeat any foe. To never back down from a fight, and through sheer will power to impose your intentions on the world. The problem is that for me it just doesn’t work, as it doesn’t for millions of others. For we are the lovers not the fighters. So what are we supposed to do?
A epiphany for me was learning to, Seduce Life. Seduction for me comes naturally. The entire act of seducing life excites me. To seduce life is to entice life to give you back what you want freely and lovingly. It requires a whole new skill set, but it sure sounds like fun doesn’t it? Admit it, wouldn’t it be great to have success and happiness given to you instead of having to take it or conquer it? Now that I think about it….that’s a seductive thought!
To a conqueror or some may call you a warrior, life is a competition that they must win. To a seducer life is a game to be enjoyed and savoured win or lose. To a warrior happiness is delayed and then celebrated with the final victory. To a seducer happiness is in the process, it’s the game silly! Sure there is an extra boost of happiness in the winning, but it would be a hollow victory if the game was not enjoyable. What would be the point? Life should be about enjoyment while you are achieving your dreams.
What would it benefit a man if he conquered the world but didn't have any fun doing it!
While you are out conquering your worlds, we seducers will be out seducing ours. Seducers don’t see any benefit in delayed happiness. Delaying everyday happiness until your goal is achieved is pretty much like delaying living. Life is too important to be taken too seriously by us. Conquerors/Warriors have a very serious path to victory, seducers however, not so much. In fact seriousness is terminal to us. If you see us being serious it’s probably just a game we are playing to mess with you. We love to be an on-wacther, as we sit, (mostly with a cocktail) and watch the others stress about life. It's not that serious.
Life is the only game where we get to make up own rules and yet so few do”
The reason so many people aspire to be conquerors/warriors is because that is what they were taught. It is one way to win but it’s not the only way. It’s a lot more fun, easier, plus the results can be even better than the warrior game. However, really great seducers understand the importance of playing the game under their own rules. They are constantly searching for ways to create more fun while living their dreams. Seducers love surprises and unpredictability because they are as flexible and easy breezy. "You deserve a life of pleasant surprises and gifts."-Eduardo
Like most of us you were probably taught that life has to be hard and difficult . Perhaps it’s time for a change of pace, time you join us seducers who believe that life was meant to be fun, easy and overflowing with abundance. You choose….Happy Valentine's Day
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Red velvet pancakes with cream cheese sauce and gold foil...
by Herman Lensing
( 6-8 servings )
5 ml white vinegar
250 ml milk
45 ml cocoa powder
1 x 30 ml bottle of red food coloring
5 ml nutmeg ( nutmeg )
170 g ( 300 ml ) flour
Cream Cheese Sauce
250 ml of cream cheese
100 g white chocolate
80 ml ilk
Place buttermilk , eggs , vinegar and milk in mixing bowl . Beat until well gemeng.Voeg cocoa and food coloring and mix well . Sift flour and nutmeg and mix until smooth batter . Let rest in refrigerator for 35 minute.Verhit a nonstick pan the size of your choice over medium heat. If you do not have a nonstick pan to use , drop a few drops of sunflower oil in pan and wipe the pan with kitchen paper . Create a little batter into pan until bottom is covered . Turn with spatula when bubbles begin to appear . Fry on for about 30 seconds or until warm gaar.Hou . Repeat until all the dough is used up .
Cream Cheese Sauce
Place cream cheese, chocolate and milk in medium bowl . Stir over low heat until mixture is smooth . Serve warm with sauce for pancakes and fresh raspberries . You can also decorate with edible gold leaf
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