Your Girlfriend Next Door


 Hello Neighbors,

Often times our friends are an extension of our families.  Each time I've connected with one of you via social media, or just cyber space in general, it really means a lot to me.  I've made it my mission to be a living example of a life well lived, full of fun, laughter, joy and peace. Well, they say its contagious. Right? I'm not only hear to make you smile, and share good finds, I want us to connect on a deeper level. I want to share things that will make your life easier, all while enjoying yourself at the same time.  So with this new year its my hope to meet more of you in person, share more Life Brands, around the globe, and continue to build a girlfriend community for us all.  You know I'm a woman whose ever evolving and learning in this thing we call life, I'm just glad I have great Neighbors to share this journey with. 

I'm back! So Excited for the new year! I have lots to share. I really hope I'm able to accomplish it all. Stay tuned.... 

From Your Girlfriend Next Door

Live Life in Color
The Next Best You

Pancake Talk Tuesday Index No. 12: Live Your Dreams


Go confidently in the direction of your dreams! live the life you've imagined." -Henry David Thoreau

Hello Lovlies 

Today is a perfect day to start living your dreams... Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fears." Take advantage of each day and try something new and exciting!  

You guys have come along with me on my personal paths, which have taken me in many different directions. For one I'm grateful, and two thankful, I'm not in it alone. I have met so many people who have shared their stories, dreams, and aspirations. How was I to advise if I weren't willing to attempt to live my own dreams. It's one thing to direct and advise someone, however its a totally different thing when your life, your soul, and your being reflect what you're speaking of. 

I decided that I would no longer advise on something I wasn't wiling to live myself, or at least try. It's so interesting, I've always been such a private person, so for me to step outside of my comfort box, amazes me daily.  It is my hope that with each step I take, I can influence others to take a step to live their dream despite fear, and their comfort zone.  Sometimes you really need to trust your gut and just go for it...

We all know to have a dream is one thing but to live it is another it takes grit moxie, spirit, passion a fiery determination to make it happen and the courage to stand loudly and proudly in the world you've created for yourself. Be ready to work, stay up pass your regular bedtime, self-teach yourself some things (youtube is my best friend), miss a few parties, the list goes on. But the bigger picture is so show us all on the other side there is a place for us... With consistence and hard work you never know where it could lead you. So please just explore the chances of what life could be on the other side.

Not everything has to be planned on a spread sheet and you don't have to order the same thing every time -be spontaneous and live a little! get out of your shell and let loose with us. -sing in the car, dance with me when everyone is watching, choose something off the menu we've never tried before, go on a fly by the seat of your pants. Live spontaneously and perhaps you'll love it.

Don't allow things to get in your way:

1. You are just too tired.
2. You are complacent and figure you don’t have the time! 
3. You surround yourself with non motivating people!
4. You give up way too easy! No perseverance
5. You don’t take responsibility.
6. You've lost your zeal and leadership qualities

An article I read on Chopra Centered Lifestyle really put things in perspective for my and I wanted to share a portion. Please read below.

How to Live Your Dreams
Harnessing the Law of Intention and Desire

What are your deepest dreams and desires?  What do you really, really want?  You may be longing for an opportunity to travel or have a child. Perhaps your heart yearns for a romantic relationship or the chance to express your creativity.  You may be dreaming of changing your career and creating more material abundance in your life.  You may just really wish you could take a long nap.

The fulfillment of all of our dreams begins with intention and desire. As the sages of Indiaobserved thousands of years ago, our destiny is ultimately shaped by our deepest intentions and desires. As a passage from the Vedic text known as the Upanishads states, “You are what your deepest desire is. As your desire is, so is your intention. As your intention is, so is your will. As your will is, so is your deed. As your deed is, so is your destiny.”

Our destiny ultimately comes from the deepest level of desire and also from the deepest level of intention. The two are inextricably linked. An intention is a directed impulse of consciousness that contains the seed form of that which you aim to create. Like real seeds, intentions can’t grow if you hold on to them. Only when you release your intentions into the fertile depths of your consciousness can they grow and flourish. The spiritual Law of Intention and Desire lays out the five steps for cultivating and fulfilling your intentions with grace and ease.

1.) Get Clear on your Intentions and Desires
Your dream is more likely to come true if you first see it clearly in your mind.

What would fulfill your needs at the deepest level? What would allow your soul to complete its destiny? Develop a clear vision of what you want and be specific with your intentions so that the universe has a clear structure to work with. At the same time, you don’t want to be so locked into your vision that you miss the different and more wonderful response that may present itself. Although it is important not to be attached to a particular outcome, formulating an unambiguous intention is essential.

It’s better to write your intentions in positive language rather than in terms of what you don’t want, because the important part of formulating intentions is to generate a field of awareness that feels spiritually complete, whole, and content. That state will naturally organize the means through which whatever you need will be manifested. If you are generating a field of lack, worry, and fear, then that is what will attract and manifest. That is why if we want peace we become that peace; if we want love, we become the love within us. If we want abundance or health, we contact and become the timeless aspect of ourselves that is inherently whole, lacking nothing.

As you consider your dreams, become clear about who you are and what would truly make you happy. Set aside external notions of success, such as labels of status, money, possessions, and social connections.

For every intention, ask yourself two questions: 1.) How will this intention serve me?” and 2.) “How will it serve everybody I come into contact with?” If the answer to both questions can be distilled to true happiness and fulfillment, then you are on the right track.

2.)  Establish Yourself in a State of Restful Awareness

Most of the time our mind is caught up in thoughts, emotions, and memories, and it’s easy to fall into the grip of our ego’s fears and demands. Beyond this noisy internal dialogue is a state of pure awareness that is sometimes referred to as “the gap.” This is the field of pure potentiality, which gives rise to everything that manifests in our physical universe.  It is important to spend time each day quieting the mind and connecting to the timeless awareness and peace that is our essential nature.

One of the most powerful ways to enter this space of expanded consciousness is through a regular meditation practice. In meditation we experience our true self, which is pure awareness, pure potentiality, and pure being. When we're rooted in the experience of pure potentiality, our intentions can spontaneously manifest. Meditation takes us beyond the ego-mind into the silence and stillness of pure consciousness. This is the ideal state in which to plant our seeds of intention.

3.)  Release Your Intentions and Desires

Through the practice of silent meditation we establish a deep baseline level of awareness from which intentions can manifest. We first settle down to a quiet state of simple awareness, and then we gently introduce our intention, letting it drop into the silence of pure awareness. We can visualize our intention, repeat it silently to ourselves, or feel it in our body – and then we let it go, planting our seed of intention in the infinite field of all possibilities.

4.)  Detach from the Outcome

This step asks us to relinquish our  attachment to a specific result and live in the wisdom of uncertainty. Attachment is based on fear and insecurity, while detachment is based on the unquestioning belief in the power of our true self. Intend for everything to work out as it should, then let go and allow opportunities and openings to come your way.

Intention is much more powerful when it comes from a place of contentment than if it arises from a sense of lack or need. Stay centered and refuse to be influenced by other people’s doubts or criticisms. Your higher self knows that despite any appearances to the contrary, everything is all right and will be all right, even though you don’t know  the timing or the details of what will happen.

Keep in mind that often is isn’t possible to let go all at once. This is a path of many small steps, a process of replacing automatic reactions with deepened awareness. Be gentle with yourself and take one step at the time.

5.)  Let the Universe Handle the Details
Your focused intentions set the infinite organizing power of the universe in motion. Trust that infinite organizing power to orchestrate the complete fulfillment of your desires. Don’t listen to the voice that says that you have to be in charge, that obsessive vigilance is the only way to get anything done. At the level of spirit, everything is always unfolding perfectly. You may not fathom the whole picture, but clearly there is a grand design. You are included in that design, and there’s no need to struggle or try to force situations to go your way.

By detaching, you end the struggle, freeing yourself from fear and doubt and releasing the obstacles your ego has created. The outcome that you try so hard to force may not be as good for you as the one that comes naturally.  This doesn't mean that you become passive. You will feel more energy and wider possibilities than you do when you think that you have to accomplish everything by yourself.  You simply take the actions that you know to take while staying open to the opportunities, clues, and synchronicities unfolding around you. You have released your intentions into the fertile ground of pure potentiality, and they will bloom when the season is right.

Live Life in Color

The Next Best You

Your Girlfriend Next Door